The first two days have been almost aimless....just popping into this or that around the house. Started my new daily occupation---as promised to Molly---walking around the neighborhood with my little buddy. Yesterday I got a lot more done that I did on Monday. Actually took all of the boxes from the office out of my car and cleaned it up, for one thing. Also took my broken glasses to be repaired (hopefully under warranty) and did some necessary shopping at Wally World (Gail sounded downright giddy when I told her I would do that).
This morning, I'm working on unpacking those boxes. Somehow, that makes it all seem more real. It was almost joyful to pack them. But unpacking them is a little more ... I dunno ....poignant? thought-provoking? Is it because I have slowed down enough to let my thoughts in? I'm definitely okay with it. I know we've made the right decision. But each item in the boxes triggers a memory. Just seeing the boxes triggers the awesome memories of the going-away parties (one in SA, one in Waco and one in Austin -- the benefit of doing field support work!) and the sweet parting words from some very special people. Twenty-six years is a long time to work for one company these days. And working for 44 years (since high school) does tend to make you forget there is any other way to do life!
You may not know that we've decided to sell the house and see the country in our travel trailer! We've been working away at finishing up projects that we've always planned to do here and doing any repairs or refreshes that 7 years of life here call for. The place is looking great and people keep saying "You're going to make it so nice that you don't want to leave!" Well, it's ALWAYS been that nice to us! It's been a terrific chapter. We've so enjoyed the lake life, lake friends, lake church and lake visits from so many of you. But the reality is that it's a LOT to take care of, it takes us longer to do the chores and it leaves us with too little time for playing!! And it's always been our "ace in the hole" in case the 401k never caught up again or we decided to retire before it did. That's the beauty of being your own general contractor and having so many wonderful family members and friends help you do the work---lots of equity!!
Months ago, I posted these two quotes on our refrigerator:
1) God, keep us firm in the hopes you set before us. Help us to remember that if our dreams are your dreams, you will make them come true.
2) Once you truly make up your mind to do something, the universe instantly sets things in motion to help you.
It seems that both are true for us!! Things just keep falling into place. The real estate market here is making a great recovery. I fully expect the lake to fill up just as soon as we finish our projects! (Bet that makes some of you wish we'd hurry!).
Right now, Gail is planning to work until the house sells. Then we'll get a newer, bigger truck and hit the road with our trailer! The plan is to travel around the country (and hopefully Canada) for a while before we decide where our new home will be. Mom and Dad have very graciously offered us a base at their home while we do that. It will be so great to spend more time with them! Both at their place AND on the road, hopefully!! We've always thoroughly enjoyed travelling with them.
So, for right now, we're in Chapter: Let it Sink in and Get Busy!
Next: WANDER WOMEN: The Next Chapter in Lives Well-Lived!
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